Rizwana Warsi December 19, 2024

 





Smart Women Follow These Seven Rules

Hello Everyone!

It’s so good to be here today, sharing space and energy with you all. Let me tell you something: life is too short, too precious, and too full of potential for us to live on autopilot. Every smart, driven, and powerful woman I know lives by a set of principles—rules, if you will—that guide her journey. Today, I’m here to share seven of those rules with you. These aren’t just guidelines or truths—they’re the keys to unlocking your best self, stepping into your greatness, and living the life you deserve.

1. Own Your Power

Let me tell you something: there’s a moment in every woman’s life when she has to look in the mirror and decide, Am I going to live small, or am I going to claim everything that’s meant for me? Owning your power starts right there in that moment.

  • You Are Enough
    Stop waiting for permission. Stop doubting yourself. Let me say it again for those in the back: You are enough.

  • Stop Apologizing for Your Greatness
    Why do we shrink ourselves to make others comfortable? From this day forward, stop saying, I’m sorry when you’ve done nothing wrong.

  • Your Voice Has Power
    Speak your truth. Advocate for yourself. Use your voice to change not only your life but the lives of those around you.

  • Own Your Choices
    Take responsibility for your life. You may not control everything, but you always control how you respond.

  • Step into Your Space
    When you walk into a room, own it. Confidence isn’t arrogance—it’s self-assurance that you belong.

2. Prioritize Your Peace

When was the last time you felt truly, deeply, soulfully at peace?

  • Peace is Power
    Protecting your peace is not selfish. It’s courageous.

  • Boundaries Are Your Best Friend
    Set boundaries unapologetically. Protect your time, energy, and well-being.

  • Let Go of What Doesn’t Serve You
    Release toxic relationships, resentments, and unrealistic expectations.

  • Peace is a Daily Practice
    Choose peace every day. Take moments to breathe, reflect, and say no when necessary.

3. Keep Learning

You are never finished. The moment you stop learning is the moment you stop growing.

  • Stay Curious About Life
    Ask questions. Wonder. Explore.

  • Learn from Every Experience
    Even failures and heartbreaks are lessons that shape you.

  • Surround Yourself with Teachers
    Teachers are everywhere—in people, books, and experiences.

  • Knowledge is Freedom
    The more you know, the more empowered you are.

  • Embrace Change
    Learning pushes you to grow and become more aligned with your true self.

4. Lift as You Climb

True success isn’t just about what you achieve; it’s about what you give back.

  • There’s Room for Everyone
    Celebrate others’ successes, and build bigger tables if there aren’t enough seats.

  • Be a Mentor
    Support and guide those who are just starting their journeys.

  • Celebrate Each Other’s Wins
    Genuinely cheer for the successes of other women.

  • Be a Bridge Builder
    Create opportunities for others to shine.

  • Strength in Numbers
    Together, we are stronger. Lift as you climb to create a legacy.

5. Embrace Failure

Failure isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of your breakthrough.

  • Failure is a Teacher
    Every mistake holds a lesson. Learn from it and grow.

  • Redefine Failure
    Failure is proof that you tried, that you were bold enough to step out of your comfort zone.

  • Fail Forward
    Use failures to propel yourself closer to your purpose.

  • Let Go of Perfectionism
    Progress matters more than perfection.

  • Failure Builds Resilience
    Every fall strengthens you.

6. Trust Your Gut

Your intuition is your greatest compass.

  • Stop Doubting Yourself
    Trust the quiet voice inside you—it knows more than you realize.

  • Intuition is Wisdom in Disguise
    It’s the accumulation of your experiences, guiding you toward what’s right.

  • The World Will Try to Drown It Out
    Block out the noise and listen to your inner wisdom.

  • Stillness is Key
    Create moments of quiet to hear your intuition clearly.

  • Learn to Differentiate Fear from Intuition
    Fear is loud and chaotic; intuition is calm and steady.

7. Celebrate Yourself

When was the last time you celebrated you?

  • Stop Waiting for Permission
    You don’t need anyone’s approval to honor yourself.

  • Recognize Your Wins, Big and Small
    Every step forward, no matter how small, is worth celebrating.

  • Celebrate the Woman You’ve Become
    Reflect on how far you’ve come and honor your journey.

  • Create Your Own Celebration Rituals
    Light a candle, dance, or treat yourself—whatever feels right.

  • Don’t Downplay Your Greatness
    Shine unapologetically.

  • Celebrate the Process, Not Just the Outcome
    Enjoy the journey and honor every part of it.

Final Thoughts

Ladies, these seven rules aren’t just about achieving success—they’re about living fully and authentically. So own your power, prioritize your peace, keep learning, lift as you climb, embrace failure, trust your gut, and celebrate yourself. Because you, my dear, are worth it—today, tomorrow, and every day after.

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